Friday, July 23, 2010

Silly kitties, they spend at least ten minutes every day, watching the bath water swirl down the drain, and then another ten minutes after its finished, trying to attack the mysterious creature they think is sucking it down in a loud way!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Baby #2 on the way!

Well, last week the test result was just one pink line, but today was a different story! Becci is pregnant again! After spending a few moments feeling irritated that I haven't gotten a second period, I remembered to go take a test. According to the calendar, however, that means this baby is already 5 weeks and 4 days along! Kind of bizarre.

Our hearts are filled with joy! God is so great! Our only concern is that we got pregnant too quickly. We were advised to wait 3 cycles, after Gavin was born. I guess that VCF doesn't work very well! We are hoping and praying that my uterus can do the job in the shape that it is in!

We have also recently decided to start making movies in our spare time, of which Jeremy has little, and Becci has all-too-much. Jeremy took some convincing to realize his own acting skills. He is much funnier than he thinks he is. So we have a few ideas in the works, but for now, the themes will have to remain a trade secret. ;)

We are looking at purchasing one, or possibly even two homes in Gilbert. They are dirt cheap, and we cold pick up two REO's, and still be under a quarter mil on the mortgage. We can rent one out, and that would cover both mortgages, or at least darn close! All those bratty kids who were so quick to buy up a big glamourous home when they landed that loan shark position at the age of 23... now lost their own home, so now we will trade them our apartment for their condo. Oh well, live and learn. Ha! Sometimes being "broke" is a blessing in disguise. Sometimes we have to have our egos hurt to become humble. The cream always rises to the top.

This reminds me of the conceptual story of two mice. Its told in the movie, Catch Me If You Can... a great watch for anyone suffering in this economy....

Two mice fell into a bucket of cream. The first mouse quickly gave up, so he drowned. The second mouse never gave up. He swam and swam until he churned that butter into cream, cream which he could stand upon, and climb right out the bucket. ;)

Please pray for our family, so our second baby can stay here with us for the rest of our earthly lives. :) Hopefully that is at least another 50 healthy years, and then Jeremy and I die peacefully, in our sleep, holding hands like they do in The Notebook. LOL

PS~ I got the job! :)

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Rough Draft Honeymoon Plans

Although it would be just awesome to go to Europe and see all the castles and art that I'm just dying to experience, we've been highly considering an alternative kind of honeymoon. I learned somewhere a while back that the highest cause of death in many third world countries is bad drinking water. Paired with this bit of knowledge, we were told that to build a well that would pump clean, fresh water costs as little as $3,000. (I'm sure that doesn't include airfare or labor but that is besides the point.) Just one well can save a huge number of lives. I don't remember if it was in the hundreds, or even quite possibly, the thousands. The number slips my memory, yet I know it was astonishing.

I told Jeremy about it, and we've both been toying with the idea... of course, there are risks involved, but I think the rewards would be quite worth it. Now we just need to decide where, when, and all those other details. Oh, and HOW DO WE BUILD A WELL ANYWAY???? Any info or ideas are welcome. :)

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

We're Engaged!

On my 28th birthday, May 27th 2010, Jeremy officially proposed to me, even though he knew what the answer was for quite a while. :) He intentionally came home without so much as a card or flowers... and proceeded to act like it was just like any other day. I wondered if he forgot it was my birthday, and despite the fact that I wasn't expecting any sort of pricey gifts (being that I hadn't worked for a month after we lost Gavin), I still found myself just a bit dissappointed he hadn't done so much as pick up a 99 cent card! But to my delight, this was all part of his plan. After a few hours of these shenanigans, he disappeared into the bedroom and returned a few moments later with his hands behind his back, and a smirk on his face!

I knew right then, or at least, hoped i knew, what was about to happen. He pulled a tiny box out from behind his back. I burst into tears, even though we'd talked about it many times. Now we just need to decide on a date! We have so much to do... get married, have more children,... I think I need a Xanax!

I think might be the luckiest girl in the world. True, honest, mutual-respect kind of love is awesome! Not to mention, he's incredibly handsome; he's a wonderful, thoughtful companion, he's creative, he's funny, he's motivated, and the cherry on top: he's a great cook! Finally, I found myself the "keeper"... Finally, after searching for so long... I've found the one my soul loves most.

p.s. I'm not a huge jewelry freak, but I have to say, the ring is gorgeous!

p.p.s. If you want the long, unedited, tear jerker version, visit my blog, Letters to Gavin... there is a link to it on the top right side of this blog... and find the post titled "Crooked Souls". I would not recommend this site for young children; it can get intense.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Gavin Kent Binder... born Friday, April 30th, 2010





Our son Gavin was born on Friday morning at 9:16 am. He is more beautiful and perfect than our wildest dreams. He couldn't stay with us because he was born too prematurely, but we had two hours with him before he went to Heaven. He weighed 15.5 oz. and measured 11 inches in length. On Saturday, we had a little gathering with friends and family, and we released blue and white balloons into the sky. We know he is up there now, playing with his balloons. We hope you'll help us to pray for him. We appreciate all your love and support.

Monday, April 19, 2010

WE ARE HAVING A SON!! :)

Friday, April 16, 2010

Baby Names

Well, we have to wait til Monday now to do the ultrasound, but we FINALLY settled on some names!

If its a she, her name will be Jemma Eve Binder.

If its a he, his name will be Gavin Kent Binder.

And if baby #2 down the road happens to be the opposite gender, then whew! We are officially done picking out names forever!! The baby's room is actually getting under way now... its cleaned up and the monkeys are already dancing on the walls. :)